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“I just wanted to write to say thank you for the wonderful
article. There was a passage in the article that touched a major
chord with me. You wrote:
"Men
fare badly in custody/access battles. If hell hath no fury like
a woman feeling vindictive, then despair knows no equal to a
father who is the impotent recipient of her cruelest revenge".
The advice that followed, that fathers need to never drop off,
no matter how rebuffed they feel, was spot on. I have lived
that advice for more than a decade. I now have a relationship
with my children that is precious and wonderful. It has
survived two divorces, one of them "from hell" involving
precisely the attempted sabotage about which you wrote.
I want every dad out there who is battling with the sabotage,
the vindictive behavior, the abuse and the pain to know that
persistence pays, that, as you say, given time, children are
smart, and will eventually judge us as we are, not as we are
held out by others to be to be. I understand the Dads that give
up - sometimes, it is just too hard - but God bless every one of
them that hangs in there. It may take forever, but children can
be just amazing. And worth every tear.
No need to do anything with this email. Just wanted to say
thank you.”
Michael
“I first met
Toby Green after reading her book "If You Really Loved Me". My
life at the time was in total turmoil. I was making one bad
decision after another, my marriage had irrevocably broken down
and I was confused, depressed and scared.
Toby
immediately brought me back to centre so that I could at least
begin to gain clarity and perspective. My marriage didn't
reconcile but it’s fair to say that with Toby's guidance I now
have a lovely friendship with my wife 8 years on.
Toby taught
me many things but perhaps the most valuable insight of all was
how to ‘survive' women, and more importantly the meaning of the
term 'intimacy'.
There is a
wonderful irony in being coached on how to be an effective man
by a woman - but then again it's probably perfect.
Perhaps a
more poignant testimonial should be one from my partner Belinda
who only knows the man I have become, or perhaps even Suzanne,
my ex-wife, who has witnessed my struggle, been a part of it,
and now chooses to maintain a close friendship with the man I
have become.
Toby has
been an on-going inspiration, mentor and life raft and has
helped me to be a better man.”
Ronny H
Ruhlmann
“Toby Green has the ability to see beyond the physical.
She listens and sees, then enables.
She has a way of making solutions reveal themselves,
she encourages self discovery.
Toby has a gift that cannot be taught in universities, a
vision that enhances the traditional techniques of her
profession.
With her guidance I have learnt so much more about myself
and understand my needs at a much deeper level than I thought
possible.
Toby is real, never intimidating and extremely caring.
Toby has been my savior through one of those life
experiences that I thought only happened to other people....
She is such a cool person; I often wish I had met her under
different circumstances.”
Aleata
“I like to
read Toby's work because sometimes I can associate with the
issues she deals with.”
Gunner
Jeppesen
Hi
“I just wanted to write and say that I have enjoyed all your
articles & books for as long as they have been published.
You always seem to say what I feel and hit the nail on the
head.
Thank you for years of insight and enjoyment.”
Cheers
Paullette
Hoogerwerf
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